How to use this course
Welcome (from your Instructor)
Course Workbook
Day 1 - Am I thriving?
Day 2 - Is my partner thriving?
Day 3 - When did I feel closer to my partner?
Day 4 - In what ways is "the grass greener?"
Day 5 - What do we share?
Day 6 - What do we not share?
Introduction
Day 7 - How is the health of my external relationships compared to before? How are my partner's?
Day 8 - How is the health of my finances compared to before? How is my partner's?
Day 9 - How is my sexual health compared to before? My partner’s?
Day 10 - What is my relationship with my screens? My partner’s?
Day 11 - Do I keep good boundaries? Does my partner?
Day 12 - What is unheard and unseen?
Day 13 - Am I good at sharing?
Day 14 - Am I good at listening?
Day 15 - Am I clear about why I am not satisfied? Is my partner clear about why I am not satisfied? Have I been clear about my requests for change?
Day 16 - Is there space for conversation?
Day 17 - What am I avoiding?
Day 18 - What am I afraid of?
Day 19 - Is there a power imbalance in our relationship?
Day 20 - Do we have shared and reasonable expectations about roles and responsibilities?
Day 21 - Is a disagreement about religion or politics in the way?
Day 22 - What feels unresolved? Has anything eroded trust?
Day 23 - How do issues become resolved? (Can they be? Is there a path to resolution?)
Day 24 - What parts of myself have I “turned down the volume on” since the relationship began?
Day 25 - What parts of myself have I discovered since the relationship began?
Day 26 - What complaints does the other person have about me that others have too?
Day 27 - Are there healthy changes I could make that would better ME regardless of whether the relationship survives? (We don’t know if this relationship could survive with THAT version of you.)
Day 28 - What changes could be made? (start medication, date nights, new friendships, etc.)
Day 29 - Have I invested in solutions?
Day 30 - If I decide to get a divorce, how would I pay for it?
Questions for navigating when children are involved
Final Thoughts & Encouragement
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